I used to talk to this girl who eventually admitted to “using me” while waiting on another guy to get his stuff together so they could pursue something. I ended up telling her to leave me alone (very politely) because I don’t want to be just friends with her. She agreed and we cut things off.
A couple months later she contacted me asking to go to her Church. She also kind of hinted at us getting a workout in together which now I realize she only said that to entice me more to go to her Church. She cancelled the plan the next day and then basically told me she looks bad in public hanging out with a bunch of her guy friends. That kinda irked me a bit so I got drunk and ended up texting her to leave me the f alone. I also said “all of you bi***es are the same.”. I shouldn’t have reacted in that way because it’s extremely immature. I ended up apologizing months later but she didn’t respond.
I am completely over her. I don’t have any strong feelings towards her and i’d prefer we don’t talk again. I still feel bad for the words I used on her and I hope it didn’t hurt her. My biggest reason for the apology was for her to understand that i’m the bad guy and she has nothing to be upset about. I didn’t apologize “for me”. The biggest thing I struggle at in life is doing stuff “for me”.
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>I am completely over her.
Doesn’t sound like it.
If you were, you’d not be stressing over someone who never responded in the first place and who you don’t expect to get a response from anyway.
Was it immature? Yeah, but you apologized once already. You can’t do anymore than that, especially if she didn’t respond to it.