i’m 17 and barely starting to be sexually active. my boyfriend and i have tried having sex a couple of times now, but it won’t go in. he’s experienced and i’m not. he’s my first and i’m his second. i’ve done research and some say being too tight could be a possibility, but i’m completely comfortable with him. we do plenty of foreplay and self lubrication isn’t a problem. he says he’s okay with it not going in cause i’m still new to sex and everything, but i feel like i’m not pleasing him enough. can someone help please.
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Use lube. No, more than that. More. I can’t emphasize enough, lube. And a condom or BC.
Lube is your friend.
There’s a thing called vaginismus about tension on point of entry. You may need a quick chat with a Dr. You can get this anonymously at your local walk in sti clinic if you want.