I keep thinking about my bf and his ex gf having sex. It turns me on and makes me cum every time.
I never use to do this, is this weird? Should I tell him I imagine him having sex with someone else in order for me to cum ?
I want to see him do it irl but I may get mad, idk if this is weird and is just a fantasy.
I borrowed his old phone he hasn’t used in years and found their sex tape I have been using it to masturbate.I feel guilty
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It’s not unusual to have this fantasy.
I understand that it is embarrassing, but you should embrace your vulnerability and share your fantasies with your partner. They don’t have to be realised necessarily.
Also, you probably dont want to be secretly looking at his old videos. Bring it out into the open.
I am married and LOVE to watch my husband with another woman.
You’ll have to think about if you like it because it’s taboo and in the past. Or you like it because you have cuckqueen tenancies.
But I think talking it over with your SO is fine. Even if there isn’t in IRL you want to do, you could start using it as dirty talk.
Probably not with his ex, but you can propose it. He may be into this stuff too
My cuckold or cheating fantasies personally come from insecurities so I’m wondering if it’s the same for you in some way?
That last bit seems unhealthy but I’d try and pin point what is making you feel turned on. Him having pleasure, is it that + him pleasuring another woman? Does it come from insecurity? There’s no wrong answer and plenty of them.