So I’m trying to get more confident with bedroom talk, especially during sex as I don’t want to feel stupid after I say something, I am getting a little bit better, but I just don’t know how to make myself more confident if ya know what I mean.
Also: I’ve had bad experiences with people before, being told to shut the fuck up and what have you. I know my partner wouldn’t do this but I just don’t feel I have any confidence at all.
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It might sound weird, but one thing I did was listen to erotic audios and learn from what the performers said. It helped me a lot and my husband is happy with the results, lol.
Erotic audios is a great idea! I would also say that simply describing the things you are feeling or want to do to your partner, while you’re kissing or nibbling on their neck/ears has worked very well for me.
Examples –
“I really want to feel you inside me”
“I want to taste you”
Etc, etc. Best of luck! 💜
ok listen. im not very good at it either and trying to build up my confidence with it as well, i was exposed to very mainstream gross(to me) porn at a young age so a lot of dirty talk seems fake to me but a week or so ago i told my husband “im such a whore for you,” and he went.. wild, in the best way possible. maybe try something like that?
ill be following this one to see if i find any good tips as well. best of luck OP 🙂