I’ve been masturbating my clit since I was 7 just because “it felt good”.
I lost my virginity a few days ago and he gave me oral too; it felt like I was close and then the feeling of the orgasm (the tension from it) just died but the pleasure was still there.
I haven’t been able to cum on my own before either. I am on BC because I have PCOS but I don’t think that’s affected it since I wasn’t cumming before.
All my friends can at least make themselves cum but I’ve been trying for years but no result. My bf really did a good job at oral and I really enjoyed it but for some reason the orgasm died down. I am anxious about not cumming but he’s able to talk to me and let me know that it’s not my fault so I am mostly calm so i don’t think stress is a factor either.
If anyone has any tips please let me know. I am scared im broken or smth.
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As a 40 year old man , I have felt this way recently , I too have had difficulty in cumming , my gf does everything right and it feels amazing, best sex of my life with her … But sometimes when she asks me to cum with her , I can’t …. Like it feels like I do ,I feel like i did orgasm but no cum .
I am aware that this is a totally different situation, and I understand that it’s 2 very different things .
However I feel and understand what you posted hit home with me , I thought something might be off about myself and that was the reason , and what you said kinda made sense to me .
I thought I was alone in this kinda thing