This is both of our first relationships. It’s been a year and the furthest we’ve gone was a handjob that gave me an indian burn on my dick and a failed fingering on my part. She has expressed that she wants to do stuff but doesn’t want to be the one to initiate it. I’ve tried to start things on multiple occasions but everytime I do it feels like she’s not into it and makes me feel like a creep. Shes saving herself for marriage (which I’m 100% cool with) but is open to oral and hand stuff. I don’t want to pressure her at all but I want her so bad. How do I start sexual stuff this far into a relationship?
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Start simple. Practice talking dirty to her. I know it is uncomfortable. Tell her what you want to do to her and what you want her to do to you. By doing this, you can see what gets her excited and go from there. You can say something you want to do and then follow it up with “Would you like that?”
You talk about it with her. Both got to adult up and talk this stuff over.
Honestly, i can’t understand people with the “only sex afer marriage” attitude. But i can understand you in that situation. So, maybe you should find out what turns her on. Then do it so much that she can’t resist you anymore, at some point. But be careful, i don’t know what kind of family she has, but some people are very aggressive if they find out you fucked their daughter before marriage.
Why is she waiting till marriage to have sex, but will practically do everything else? She’s ok with sucking your dick but draws the line at your dick being inside her?? I don’t get it….