Hi. Me (26m) and my gf (25f) have a holiday abroad planned for next week and we are going to have our first threesome there, with a stranger without strings attached. It is going to be an MFM which is what we are both comfortable with.
I have a couple of questions. Is it wise to skip condom for the oral part for the third guy? We would like to but I have some concerns
She has a very high sex drive, way higher than me and I really hope to be able to keep up and not to cum immediately. In which case I would be out of the game. She hopes we both could go multiple rounds. Thinking of taking the blue pill to last longer and to be able to go multiple round, would that be stupid? After I cum my participation could just be limited to oral which I am ok with but she wants the double dick experience so I really want to be at my peak performances for her.
I feel a feeling of jealousy seeing her excited about it, today knowing I am have a feet kink she came showing the nail polish she intends to wear and asking if she should wear the anklet I gave her for christmas, and a rush of blood went to ly head but its like I want this and I cant wait, its kind of weird.
Anybody had this experience, any advice?
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We have done tons of threesomes. A smart person asks for recent proof of std status for potential play partners.
Condom would be wiser – but also a huge downer, at least to me. Transmission risks are much lower with oral, and again – we only play with tested partners, so we don’t use them.
Taking a pill is not a bad idea for a threesome setup if you can’t normally go for multiple rounds.
If you don’t know the 3rd, you should definitely use a condom.
Hey buddy… if you’re freaking out about coming too soon, and feeling jealous, and saying you only consented to this be a she has a higher libido, I have news for you:
This potential threesome is about to fuck you up, badly.
I currently have a sex triad thing going on (I’m 43M) with two women. Basically we have a setup where we do this once a week (usually Friday night-Saturday morning) where they’ll come over and I’ll cook us dinner and we’ll have drinks. Sometimes we’ll do drugs. We all took STD tests before we started this and they’re all on birth control, so I don’t use a condom (neither of us feel there’s a point in wearing condoms during a threesome).
Since we do this regularly we’ve all become much more comfortable with each other in the bedroom. Both of the women are straight and we mostly “focus on me” for the most part, but occasionally they’ll play with each other as well. I would highly recommend if you want to have a really fun threesome you should find two partners who can do it at least a few times together, so you get accustomed to each other. Just my input.
If you’re feeling jealous just thinking about it then you’ll probably be crushed when this other guy is destroying your gf and she’s loving it.
You will probably ruin you self-esteem and/or relationship.
You are jealous of the other dude fucking your gf.
You have performance anxiety and even think about taking meds for that. The blue pill is not harmless and it wont just help you to do 3 rounds.
You have 0 experience with sharing your partner and dont know your boundaries or how you will emotionally handel that.
You dont know anything about safe sex, STD tests etc. so always use condoms
In your head threesomes always sound fun and great, but most end bad. Maybe take smaller steps and let him touch her first, look how you feel. Or let him watch you fuck her …
If you feel comrfortable go further, if not just stop it.
There is not much to gain and a lot to lose. You’re young and I truly dont know why you’re doing it at all.