And no, not in a “hitting on people” way. I (21m) want to make friends but I find it nearly impossible to start conversations with people if there isn’t a clear “reason” for me to be talking with them. I psych myself out by thinking that they don’t want to be talked to or that they’ll be confused at why I’m talking to them. I also just don’t know what to say. I’m very socially inept and just want to know not only how to start such conversations but also when & where the ideal situation(s) are (and when not to).
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Is the problem actually starting off conversations or is it your conversation skills? You gotta identify the problem causing your lack of confidence.