hey all, hope everyone’s doing okay!
so basically me (f20) n my bf (m20) have been together a bit over a few months, and we’re pretty sexually comfortable with each other, we tell each other what we like and what we don’t, etc. i noticed since we started dating he’d call me mommy/milf or like respond to my social media posts with that (as a joke), and always tells me I’m gonna be a milf when I’m older. I laugh them off and I go along with it jokingly, I have no problem with it just to be clear!
I also noticed that he loves sucking on my boobs, like loves- could do it for 30min straight. I don’t mind it, I think it feels kind of nice actually lol. He also likes it when I call him a good boy, or anything of the sort. However whenever mommy kinks get brought up he’s like nah I’m not into that etc, but recently he’s been less rejecting of it? But still kind of denies it. I don’t wanna ever be making him feel ashamed or kink shame or whatever, I was just wondering to see how/if I could cater to that if he did? Like I’m just tryna make him feel good yknow- like if that’s what he’s into then cool I’m down- hell I might even be into it lol
I’m just not too sure where to go from there- I don’t wanna Persistently ask, and I just go along with it whenever it happens.
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You don’t have to ask, if you notice he likes certain things then you can just go along with them. Not necessarily to title it or tell him he has a kink
So, to be clear, about every guy on the planet like playing with and sucking tits. He just seems to have a commitment and patients that a lot of guys don’t. That can be a good thing if you’re on the receiving end.
As far as names, I’m not sure if calling you mommy qualifies as a mommy kink if he says no but I would talk with him outside the bedroom and let him know you’re open to exploring things with him. Hope this helps.
It sounds like he’s just a bit embarrassed to admit it. I wasn’t in denial as much as he is, but some of my kinks in this area were tough to fully admit. It became easier with time, and now we openly discuss these things. So I’d say just keep being supportive and eventually he should feel safe and comfortable enough to admit it.