I don’t know why but I’m literally obsessed with the thought of getting my boyfriend off. All we’ve been able to do is me rubbing him through his pants in public but it’s so fucking hot!! (He never finished because we got walked in on – multiple times in public) It’s to the point where I honestly don’t even care about getting mine anymore. I just want to make him feel good and see his reactions.

Can anybody relate?? Is this a kink or something

27 comments

  1. Closes thing would be compersion I think.

    But compersion is described as “Vicarious joy associated with seeing one’s partner have a joyful romantic or sexual relation with another.”

    I myself like giving women pleasure regardless if it’s reciprocated.

  3. It’s a personality trait that implies you are empathetic and derive pleasure from others feeling pleasure. I to get off on my wife feeling pleasure as much if not more than my own. Your boyfriend is a lucky man!

  5. Me tooooo. I have insane, mind blowing orgasms every time we have sex. But still my favourite part by far is when he cums, there is nothing better 🤤

  6. The best lovers are very giving people. I eventually got to a point I had not interest in takers and only wanted partners who were equally giving.

    Doing stuff in public is a common kink.

  7. My gf is like this, although we dont do much of the public stuff, once on a beach. But she cant keep herself away from my dick. Last night she made me cum 3 times in a row then in the morning..i feel drained lol i think its a soft kink

  11. Yeah the name for it is pleaser, my boyfriend and I are both pleasers. Great fun, that never seems to end.

  14. Just make sure he cares for you as much as you do for him. It’s easy for people who aren’t empathetic to take advantage of those who are.

  15. That’s me, but with women. My ex was multi so I would regularly work on making her cum until she was so worn out that she couldn’t really even be part of it anymore. She would just lay there and every so often would convulse and orgasm and then go right back to just laying there and taking it. I told her directly that it was the closest I would ever come to feeling like a god and it was the most powerful feeling I’ve ever experienced. I could care less if I finished at all so long as I got to watch her get off multiple times.

    There’s a term for people that derive pleasure by seeing their partners get pleasure, it’s called compersion.

    Edit: She was very much a vocal and active participant in the beginning, I don’t want this coming off like she was just a dead fish for the entirety. But people have an exhaustion limit and pushing them up to and past it is something I truly enjoy doing.

  17. I guess it makes sense from a biological perspective. The original purpose of sex is pregnancy. Can’t get pregnant if the guy doesn’t come.

  18. I be in my wife solid like yeah I got this, we running a marathon today. I should have gotten her some powerade. I hope her homework done cause if not her professor bout to be shocking her grade today.

    Then she has an orgasm and the feeling of her cumming has me like
    “Minute man, minute man, imma one minute man”

  19. My current partner says she loves my face during orgasm, especially while PIV sex, because it’s the only moment when I look totally defenceless.

  20. I SO RELATE TO THIS. I think it might also have to do with me having trouble reaching orgasm. But it doesn’t even personally bother me because I truly feel relief when whoever I’m with finishes. I enjoy getting pleasured but the most pleasure I feel is when I can make him cum.

  23. I feel this way towards my (m) partner (f)… I can’t get enough of making her cum. I don’t want equal orgasms, I want her to cum 10x more because it is so much more fulfilling to me.

  24. No! Some of my best lovers were those that I loved to turn on. Getting them hard it hot. I’ve done it public too! Lol. My ex was all about not letting himself get off until I did several times. Sometimes ended in him not finishing. He was so hot that he got me off it didn’t matter. They’re are tons of times he got me off and didn’t. It didn’t matter. The whole act is enough without getting off. I know what you mean I am so turned on by turning someone on. It’s normal. It shows how attracted you are to him and how much his happiness and making sure he is pleased actually matter to you. Sex didn’t get full swing for me until 40. My libido is in hyperdrive and I crave human touch. I realized what I was missing out on, but also where I realized my needs aren’t less important, but fulfilling his needs are not only a turn on , but he deserved it being such an unselfish lover himself I wanted to. Geez , got me thinking about him now, lol

  25. I’m with you there! I love making him finish. My favorite way is in cowgirl style, cuz when he starts to cum he typically slows down and lets it happen – but something about being on top makes me feel powerful and looking down on him while he makes those cute faces and noises drives me crazy, so as soon as I notice he’s cumming, I will put my hand over his mouth and put my whole body weight downwards and absolutely FUCK him, and dirty talk him to boot. And just keep going until he’s a whiny, sexy little puddle. Once he’s almost done, I move my hand and slow it down and ride him suuuuuupper slow and gentle while I give him face/neck kisses and caress his face/hair and comfort him (like, “shhh it’s okay baby” kinda stuff). I always clean him up afterwards too and then we cuddle and act like giggly teenagers 🙂

    I’m obsessed, but the man has stamina for days now and can literally fuck me forever without finishing, so I gotta put that WORK in sometimes!! I fondly remember our first time getting a hotel room, whew I made him cum like 8 times in just 2 days hehehe. New relationship energy and all. We’ve been together for almost 2 years and still can’t keep our hands off one another ❤️

  26. Im a 26F virgin and tbh i never had any relationship but that is one of the things i would love to do tje most. Just thinking about my partner cumming anywhere anytime and how good im making him feel really gets me dizzy and hot.

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