We’ve been searching on apps to find a girl to bring into our bedroom for some fun, but I want to speed this up by looking for someone in person. We have no idea where to even begin beside the obvious clubs/bars. Please help! Im wet just thinking about this.

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  1. Swinger clubs are in most cities. People are also more open these days so a college bar might work also depending on how friendly and safe you guys are. I would approach her (subtly) together and respect boundaries.

    I would also spend some time deciding what your boundaries are. Do you want to explore bi-curious or do you just want to see him having sex with another girl? What form would this take? Do you want to be in a ltr w him? If so, do you think it could be a problem in the future? These are the types of questions you and he should discuss first.

    Best of luck and have fun.

  2. Basically, you’re [unicorn hunting](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-unicorn-polyamory-5215473) and the reason they call it that is because they’re not easy to find.

    The easiest thing to do would to hire an experienced sex worker to be your third. This wouldn’t be an unusual request to them, they’re there to perform a service so there’s no need to worry about romantic entanglements or hurt feelings or whatever.

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