Ghosted by hookup

I know ghosting is fucked up, but in the sphere of meaningless hookups I couldn’t care less.

In December I hooked up with this one girl from tinder. I made it awkward cuz we had sex for hours and then she felt numb and I overtly apologized. Anyways the next day I ask if she’s down to go again. She says she’s doing laundry. So I’m like okay.

Next day at work, I work at a liquor store, we snap back and forth but I wait a couple hours to respond. She sends me a “wyd tn” snap that I don’t see until after work. She wanted me to bring alcohol and hang out. I’m like damn I just got out of work, then she’s like don’t worry about it. I bring up that I’m working tomorrow and I could bring it. Doesn’t open my snap the next day. The day after that I message her.

She responds but then she doesn’t to one of them. I’m an insecure guy so I don’t be sending shirtless pics or nudes. But like the day after I sent a message and she didn’t open it, I sent a shirtless pic to her and my other hook ups cuz I never feel that confident. An hour passes by and everyone else sends a pic back, so I send her a message saying “it’s not a dick pic but don’t open this around anyone”

Anyway days pass she opens it. She still looks at my story.

It’s new years, I hit her up again and ask if she’s down to drink sometime. She responds “hell yesss!!!”

I’m like I’m so in there again.

Then a week or two later we get a streak going. Then after it’s been a month from our first and only hook up, she asks through snap, “are you down to hu again?”

I say I’m down when u free? See says during the week. She doesn’t open my snap, she doesn’t hit me back. Halfway through the week she sends a snap of her with her squishmallows. I respond with a snap of me waking up saying that I wish I had squishmallows. Three days pass, opened no response. Three days later a coworker told me to just go for it. So I send her a selfie of me holding a bottle of liquor saying “wyd tn?”

Three days later, opened it, no response. She don’t look at my stories any more. Last story she saw was when I took a pic with another girl at the club

I’m done hitting her up, I think she’s over wanting to fuck me. I just can’t get over the fact that she still wanted to hook up two more times after I thought I fucked it up.

Also I’m not looking for commitment so I’m just hoping that one day she randomly hit me up when she’s serious

I’m talking to other girls rn. So it barely matters, but I just wanted my second and third time.

Y’all think she was seriously interested in hooking up again in the moment or she just said those things to fuck with me?