I’ve (22M) always been introverted and don’t really talk or hangout with a lot of people. When I do go out sometimes it’s just by myself and I can go/do whatever I want. It like it that way, it helps me to clear my head.
Just recently started going out with someone I knew for some time. The thing is, she wants to hangout and go out with each other most of the time. Thing is, I value my own freedom and independence. Sometimes I just wanna go out for just a walk to clear my head and do stuff by myself.
I’m worried if she’d think that’s weird and it’s like I don’t want to spend time with her or find her bothersome etc. Do you think asking for some extensive alone time too big of an ask?
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She won’t think it’s weird. Otoh you do need to get used to the fact that she’ll be spending more time with other friends. This won’t work if you qrw the jealous type