I went for a marriage with my husband. I know my husband is checking a girl out. He’s not directly ogling but I can see him look at her whenever possible.

Am I overthinking? Why is it making me angry?
What’s the line to draw?

Btw that girl is newly married. We are 2 years into our marriage.

5 comments

  1. It sounds like you’re saying your husband is checking out one specific woman everytime he’s around her. Is that right?

  2. How do you know her and how exactly do you mean he’s checking her out?

    My husband and I know we each find various friends, celebrities and other people attractive. It’s human to notice other people and we trust each other.

    Do you have reason to think your husband would be disloyal or losing feelings.

  3. I’ve been married for twenty years, love my wife more then my life, and I still check out women. Can’t help it, would never dream of doing anything about it. Be worried if he becomes secretive about things.

  4. I mean, every couple set their own line, but it doesn’t seem like he’s doing anything wrong.

    My partner and I look at hot people all the time lol

    Maybe try teasing him about it and see how he reacts. If he’s just innocently looking at her he’ll either be a bit embarrassed or laugh back about it. If he has bad intentions he’ll probably get mad and defensive.

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