I’ve noticed that people respond really well to a slight smile and the establishment of eye contact. I think as long as you look them in the eyes for a second or two when approaching them, it’s enough to be taken as a sign of confidence and it shows respect for them. I feel like people thought I was weird or didn’t want to talk to me because I’d never smile or make any real eye contact with them. It takes practice, it’s crazy that I have to almost learn how to be human. But, I think I’m getting better at it.
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Good for you. Seriously. If it doesn’t come naturally then practice is good.
Glad you figured out this one on your own! It’s one of the first things that’s important to work on.
1) **Eye Contact + Big Smile** when meeting someone or approaching.
2) **”Hint of a Smile”** if you want to be approachable or appear interested as a conversation is happening.
Nice job!