A lot of fantasizing and experimenting with my husband, and so far, we’ve come up with:
* Some type of “earning” kink? We do sexual favors for each other to earn each other to do something else we want. Or, do one sexual thing to be allowed to fuck each other, etc. It’s all agreed upon and in good fun, but I’m usually the one to make my husband “earn” the right to fuck me with a huge edging, eating out session, and he looks up at me throughout the act to see if he’s earned my approval, and once he has, he says “thank you” while fucking me.
* A worship day. This is more a mental thing than anything physically different we’re doing, but we agree upon a certain day where we have to almost religiously worship each other’s bodies. Again, it takes sex to a whole another level with the intention that my husband is fucking me to worship me, desperate to make me feel good, and vice versa with his cock…
* I keep fantasizing about my husband recording him fucking me while we’re in different positions, and he narrates to the camera what he’s doing, how good it feels, “I had to fucking earn this juicy little pussy…” and so on. We would never share any videos with anyone, but the narration aspect of it turns me on so much and I have no clue why.
* What I call “distracted” sex, like my husband sucks on my breasts while I’m reading or something and giving him no attention at all.
Are these well-established kinks that I don’t know about?
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This sounds like just a bunch of different variations of domination to me in varying degrees.
They aren’t new kinks they are just acts that can be categorized under domination play. It sounds like you are the one that’s really getting off to dominating your partner.
those all exist. you’re just personalizing like… body worship, an ‘ignoring’/bored n ignored/humiliation kink, dirty talk, and general D/s or teasing type thing?
like i have a specific cnc fantasy/roleplay, i’ve never seen anyone else with the same preference. it’s still just cnc though.
nothing wrong with that, either. there’s a very close to zero chance that anyone is going to come up with an entirely new kink, or even a truly new variation on an extant kink. everything else is just details/specificity/personal iteration– which imo a lot of people don’t bother to get into, so good for you on doing that.