I’ve been chilling with this girl for a while now, and everything apart from sex is great. I have made her cum from fingers, vibrator, she gives great bjs/hjs etc. but when it comes to sex its just a bit awkward.
She has quite a great ass on her but I think its too big for me? I only have ~6inches to use and 5.5girth which is why I like to have sex normally in missionary legs up.
I have tried prone-bone with a pillow and spooning/lazy sex (her favourite position) but I have no idea if Im actually going inside her or if Im just fucking her cheeks which leads to me feeling embarrassed/insecure and losing interest in sex. It also doesnt help that I don’t get much feedback from condoms and that she gets a bit looser than Im used to when turned on.
Any tips to improve my game?
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Have you tried talking to her? You must know if SHE feels anything. Even if you are just casual dating, it is important you both can talk about your sexual life and arrange things the best way possible.
❤️I like big booties. First of all cherish that booty, with her permission get a couple of hand fulls. Surprise her my eating her booty with honey 🍯 and at the same time pound her pussy with the dildo. The booty has nerves to increase the sensation. During this moments give her sweet talk.😘
I get how it would be difficult, but communication really seems like the only thing that can fix this. Just be upfront and explain its hard for you to talk about, but you need to know if what you do feels good for her. Expect and respect honesty, so you can figure it out.
You could find every single trick, position, and approach to this problem and it won’t matter if you can’t get an honest review for how it works on her specific body. Focus on the positive, you are doing well with your toys and fingers, and just ask for some information on how penetration is going, explain that you need to know it feels good or you get turned off.
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I mean if you where in the wrong hole I’m sure she’d let you know.
I have a very curvy, voluptuous ass/figure. As someone else recommended, ask her how it feels. My go-to’s with my person are typically missionary (legs up, regular, etc.), and doggy (most partners favor this for the reason listed above). Grab her ass and guide yourself… most men like watching themselves enter, anyways. Also, just talk to her.
Edit: I had someone ask in a DM about my size to compare with someone they have difficulty penetrating, and I am happy to oblige. Essentially similar to Ashley Graham. 5’8”, around 200 lbs, dress size 14ish, 38d, well distributed between ass, thighs, and breasts. High cheekbones 💁🏼♀️
Spread those cheeks apart and have a good look how deep your getting in
You’ve got plenty of dick. Can she not spread her cheeks at all?
You’re plenty big, she’s just not spreading her tush enough to get her vagina out enough. When you’re newly dating, it’s a little unnerving for us girls to spread our ass that wide, but you can help her. It’s soft flesh, 6” is more than enough.
Send her to me
She’s not looser but girls with big booties tend to be more wide set down there bc of them birthin hips. I wish I had birthin hips sighhh
Love me a big ol’ ass. What you need to do is get her good and worked up. Spend some quality time munching on the pussy. Make her cum twice. After that, bend her over on her knees with her forehead leaned down to the bed. Lube her up and then go raw dog up the tooter hole. Enter slowly. Reach around her and work the clit wit ur fingers and do that for a while as you are gradually sliding the dong deeper until you get all the way to the hilt. Pause here with your dong action but keep working the clit. Slowly start barely oscillating ur hips and gradually build up momentum. You are going to notice the Eros level is rising higher and higher with your partner and you need to try to find her resonant frequency as you are now building to very powerful full length thrusts. You are going to be able to tell right as she goes over the edge. As soon as you can tell she has fallen over the edge, resist the temptation to immediately change technique. Give it at least 3-5 seconds so you don’t interrupt the initial explosion, but as soon as that initial explosion reaches peak let go of the clit and grab her other hip and give it 110% of your power, depth, and speed. She gonna cum again and there’s about a 1/3 chance she gonna pass out. Dump the load and be ready to get away with whatever shenanigans you want to for at least the next 2 weeks.
You are average in size, don’t underestimate the youthful vagina; it can attach to almost any dick and, most of the real action takes place around the clit anyhow. Put a pillow on the edge of the bed, have her lay on her stomach on said pillow with her ass slightly arched upward, attack that pussy in an upward move while reaching around and exposing her clit with your very moist fingers. She will believe there is a horse cock going into her. Slow strokes at the beginning, use your hips. Stop believing you can’t satisfy a woman and start figuring out how to do it.
Just push the cheeks to the side to give you more space, 6 is more than enough my brother
Eat the booty like groceries.
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Side straddle is a go to for me and my plus size wife. She on her side I straddle her bottom leg. Top leg pulled up towards her chest. That’s her favorite way
Even with 7″ and smaller booty girls I’ve never felt like side sex was really working in my personal experience, always felt more like a porno type position that isn’t as enjoyable. But my advice is when in doggy spread her cheeks a lil, gives you a great view and a great view of what’s going on and how much you are working with in that position. Pronebone is one of my top positions and it helps a lot to put a pillow underneath her hips to elevate her rear and give you a better angle. Don’t forget to try different stances on your end in certain positions to see what works best, everyone is different and everything feels different for others so it’s best to just try things out and get creative but most importantly have fun!
P.s. If you don’t already try incorporating stretching in your daily routine. Helps with your over well being and health as well as in bed 😉
Have her do a Captain Morgan pose, but laying on her side. You be up on your knees. You can move around slightly to get a better angle.
Or, she needs to have her ass up and head on the bed. Spread the cheeks a bit and go to town. Her head being down will give you a better angle.
Only 6? You act like you have a 1inch dick calm down.
Talk to her. I have a ton of ass and never had any issue with an above average peen. Some positions lead to a little more slipping out than others but that comes with the territory. Just communicate through it. Giggle when shit goes wrong to break the tension and keep going.
To quote Pam from Archer “But this time, get in there. All you’ve been doing is giving one side hell.”
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Call her Big Booty coz she got a Big Booty – Abraham Lincoln
Stimulate her clitoris while you go in from behind if you can or tell her to play with herself. She’ll get tighter and you’ll both enjoy it more.
Try side saddle, where she lays on her side with her bottom leg straight out. Her other leg she pulls up towards her chest and either rests at a 90 degree bend (at the hip) or you can either help hold at a comfortable bend for her or if she’s flexible she can put it upon your shoulder. You straddle her lower leg, lets you get right on up in there real good. Also gives you good access to rub her clit or ass if either of you so desire. You can also use a hand on her hip and the one holding her leg for leverage to really get a good rhythm in. Holding her leg up also will allow her to roll a bit more towards her back, allowing her to look at you easier, better access to boobs, and a great view of them bouncing if you get going.
I am also voluptuous woman and my guy is same size as you. I can bounce on his member quite well in doggy position. He loves it.
She lays on her side, pull legs apart, top knee to her chest. Straddle bottom leg. Insert penis in vagina while pulling ass up slightly if needed.
She needs to stick the booty up higher. My rule is, if you can’t see the butthole then she’s doing it wrong.
Prone bone is my fav position but I don’t have big dick so what I do is I first start on doggy where I can easily enter her then without pulling out I ask her to lie down flat with me, it works perfectly. If I try to enter her on prone bone position its very difficult to get in if the girl has big ass.
You gotta spread the cheeks and get between em, use the natural cushion of the fat to your advantage
Your around the same size as me. My mrs is on the bigger size and we never really have much of an issue. Doggy works well for her generally
What is her race?
Face down, ass up. Also use that vibrator at the same time. Also if you want to not be on the fence about being inside her.. have you heard of elliptical vaccuum tubes? Pack one of those during foreplay (say while giving her first orgasm), with a strap or ring once out of the tube, and you will know, and she will be letting you know, with moans. You can temporarily increase your girth by 30% or more (filling a 2.25″ ID tube should be easy for you), and you will see her stretching around the girth, even with an ocean of amazing booty.
The worst damage I’ve had are water blisters, but if you don’t have self control, it can be bad. That said, this stuff is available on Amazon. Under $50 for all-in-one designs, or around $100 for a quality tube and hand pump. Also there are subreddits about stretching and getting bigger, one actually by that name.
I would learn to use my tongue… Eat her ass till she cums
Grab the top of those cheeks and push up towards her head.
You have to communicate. Practice if you need to but YOU GOTTA USE YOUR WORDS. Also use your hands to dive in, swim between the cheeks and find glory.
How big a cheeks we talking here?