Ok so, that’s kinda embarassing, I was using my toys last night and I was super horny, so I did want to try out anal penetration but the moment I tried to put it inside it felt damn terrible, I couldn’t even put it inside properly.

Did I make a mistake or just the way it is?

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  2. As it sounds like your first time with anal play this doesn’t sound like you had enough preparation. Like just getting used to the sensation of something in your anus like a finger.

    You also might not have been ready yet for the girth of the toy you were inserting ( you didn’t state what toy it was)

    Recommend you start small just lightly massage the area around your anus then try a finger then slowly graduate up in toy size if you want the thoroughly explore anal play.

  3. Nothing to be embarrassed about here. If it was your first time, then this is fairly common. Your mental state is one of the biggest barriers to anal penetration. Sure, you might have felt horny enough to try, but if your brain wasn’t ready, then you your anus will not relax enough. Start small, use a finger to explore the area. Learn to relax, take it slow. Lots of lube!

  4. Lube, going slow, and understanding your own preferences are so important when it comes to anal! If you don’t use lube, you can really tear yourself up and cause fissures. If you don’t go slow, you’re stretching the muscles too quickly and it will not feel good (for most people). Lastly, if ya don’t like it, ya don’t like it, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Give it a shot with proper prep and patience and see how you feel. Try your fingers first, then work your way up to a toy. 🙂

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