Recently I went on a first date with a girl and I thought it went alright, wasn’t amazing but it was fun. About an hour after I got home I sent her a text telling her I had a nice time and that I’d be interested in another date this weekend if she’s down. That was last night around 11pm, it’s been about 20 hours since I sent that text. How long after a date is a lack of a response considered ghosting? Also, would double texting be a bad idea here?
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Just go ahead and forget about her bud. There’s more out there
I’d say 12-24 hours after a date. 24-48 hours if you’re just texting normally.
Don’t double text, just move on. People who ghost are shitty, just move on to someone better.
I’d say it depends. Does she always take that long to reply? However, I wouldn’t double text.
I’m always against double texting. I think if she doesn’t respond after a day or two, she’s not interested.
2 weeks.
I wouldn’t double text. If she was enthusiastic about continuing, you would know. She wouldn’t forget to respond to you even with other things going on.
Ghosting is a shitty attitude, you’re better off without her in your life.