I know the title makes me sound like an asshole. But, I just want some advice on this. I’ve been with my bf for about a year now and everything has been great. But his kid recently moved in with him full time and I’m just a little overwhelmed and I don’t know what to do about it. Like obviously, he’s not going to have time for me anymore. But it’s just frustrating bc we’re going from living together to hardly seeing each other and I’m just supposed to be okay and act like none of this is bothering me. I just feel overwhelmed.
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Really? If you can’t handle his child being there then perhaps you need to leave him alone.
Obviously his kid comes first… Plenty of people with kids still make time for their relationships, but it’s understandable if this isn’t your cup of tea. Just means you’re not compatible.
How old is the kid? He’s got the kid fulltime? Does he have family to help him look after the kid? Can you have the kid baby sat on weekends?
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