My partner is on the smaller side. Do cock rings make a difference? What else can we try?

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1. > he also doesn’t get fully hard a lot times

   Cock ring’s can help here as they can hold blood in the penis so he can stay harder; in which can have his penis reach full potential and hit your spot more intensely

   With the sleeve thing, you know your BF best and how he’ll take it with the sleeve brought up.

   Note sex positive subreddits will be slightly bias, and the guys posting there will be all for sleeves but for the average guy out there it can be seen as incredibly emasculating and change the relationship for the worse

2. Is he overweight? Even losing twenty lbs can save a dick.

3. A cock ring can help sustain an erection since it prevents the penis from “deflating” from blood circulation. But if a penis can already gain full erection on its own, the cock ring won’t make it bigger than that.

   From the sound of your situation, a cock ring can’t hurt to try though. And sure, a sleeve could help too.

   >I’m worried about damaging his confidence

   Well, you’re going to have to weight what’s more important: your sexual satisfaction or his ego.

   Personally, I’d suggest putting your satisfaction first. So either risk that he’ll have his ego hurt or avoid it by breaking up and finding someone who’s a better match for your physically.

4. How small we talking?

5. Bringing up the idea of a sleeve is a great way to end the relationship.

6. he should try cialis and l-citrulline for ED. he could also do traction for length. and he can use a pump for 20min before sex for girth

7. My best advice is to find another partner. It may sounds harsh and extreme but if sexual compatibility is high on your priority list it will probably not get better. Finding a new mate could be the best thing for you both.

   If sexual gratification is low on your priority list, maybe get some toys and try different things. I agree, I would not recommend a cock sleeve for him. Just get a dildo and have him use it on you. I hope you both find a solution that works.

   Cock rings do work but he will need to find the right fit. They will help him maintain a rock hard erection but it can cause lasting tissue damage if it’s too tight for too long.

   Best of luck.

8. Do you squeeze around him to get more intense sensation? The more you do this the tighter you will become and the more pleasurable things will be for both of you.

9. There is some good advice for him to do. There are some position changes you can try that might make him feel “fuller” inside. Try having your legs close/tight together in doggy and missionary (legs form an L up his torso). A butt plug can really make things seem fuller too if you’re okay with that kind of thing. I suggest softer silicon, more of the elongated type vs the shorter stout shapes.

10. Tell him that he need to stop watching porn.

    Death grip syndrome

11. Prostate stimulators are known to help with erection, both from use outside of sex and wearing one during sex.

12. Sleeve

13. A cockring might help, other things that could help would be exercise – cardio like running or swimming will improve blood flow, weight lifting will improve blood flow and slightly elevate his testosterone. I noticed my sex drive and ability to maintain are better when I’m working out regularly and I think it’s both cardiovascular and mental health.

    Maintaining an erection is often kind of a mental/emotional thing. If he’s distracted, feeling depressed or less confident it can make it difficult.

    Lastly there is of course Cialis, it’s easy to get a prescription for.

14. I just want to provide some perspective on the cock sheath. My partner and I bought a couple of different ones last year and they’re great. I’m average size and, I’m sure you know, they make the sheaths in many sizes, some very large.

    They’re great for her and for me. They give her different sensations than my dick alone can, and they squeeze my dick tighter than her vagina can. And it feels good to be swinging 9 inches, even if it’s augmented reality. Highly recommended. Best sex toys I’ve ever purchased.

    That said…you do have to be delicate about about the approach. I’ve had my ego a little bruised when my gf was just a little too direct about using them. You have to reassure him that his dick is just fine as is and the sheath is just a toy for novelty and variety.

15. Maybe he’s feeling insecure and once he penetrates he feels like he’s letting you down? Gets into his head and that fucks up his libido?

    Also, how small is small? I’ve been with small. I have a pretty big ass. So the lazy sex position is amazing because it hits my gspot, he had 3 and half inches so maybe 2 inches in. Riding also helps you but if he loses it, it can be because he doesn’t feel good enough or he has some sort of erectile problem.

16. It’s going to change man to man.

    I have tried several different cock rings and none of them made any difference what so ever. They didn’t extend my erection, they didn’t make me thicker, they didn’t do anything.

    Based on your edit, it sounds like he might want to talk to his doc. Cialis was a game changer for us.

    YMMV

17. Blue chew

18. It may assist. I find it helps as it keeps the blood in the penis and erect longer. I also find a more intense orgasm and harder erection.

19. Bad dragon and deep fantasies got really great cock sleeves or wearables, I use some from both and they are fantastic. Best part is there are not normal looking so it’s never a comparison or insecurity, its a persona got a girthy green one we call the halk smash and it takes her breath away with its studded ribbness. Then a xeomorph one that Cas all the nice Ripley ridges and curves we call alien dick… and I rock that fierce mentality with them…

20. Look into blue chew… it’s got the best of all three Ed meds in one

21. A couple supplements he can try are L-citruline and or l-argenine both great for blood flow to muscles and penis, if not try cialis or viagra