so let me start this off with saying we have been together for 3 years… porn or girls have always been an issue in our relationship but it never had come down to cheating until a month ago. he went on a video chatting app and masturbated to 2 girls, screen recorded it and left it in his photos. i have never went through his phone before, we made it a deal we didn’t want to do that in a relationship. he was showing me pics in his photos blah blah i found the video. i’m devastated and i never would have thought he would do that to me especially after treating him so good. i’ve always told myself if i get cheated on then that’s the end of the relationship. i guess i’m wondering, will he change? he says he is going to get help for me. help as in therapy since he told me he has some sort of sex addiction (and i believe it.) he seems genuinely remorseful. a part of me still can’t help but think “who would do this to someone they love?” am i blind?
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It is not likely that he will change, at least very radically. I think you are so young that it is no use to continue a broken relationship.
If you forgive him, would you be able to forget this and trust him fully again? If not, your future will be full of paranoia and stress.