So I’m chatting with this german girl for more than 2 months, I’ve been asking her if I have a chance with her or if I could court her she keeps on saying “I need more time” “I have to think” I keep on saying that it’s okay if she says no and I wouldn’t get hurt but her response is always “I have to think” I’m really confused will I continue to communicate with her do I really have a chance? Thank you!
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Do you take the „hint“ and give her time or are you constantly reiterating your desire to date? It seems you asked at least twice in 2 month.
You have two options, give it time if you can or bail if you need an answer now. Neither is right or wrong, you are maybe just incompatible.
She’s not interested in you, but she doesn’t want to hurt you.
When a girl is “unsure”, it’s a polite “no”.
Has she seen your photo?
If yes and she needs time
Then move on you are not her type
I live in Germany and seen many like this, in my experience in most cases they were getting railed by some emotionally unavailable guy and needed a shoulder to lean on or at attention , flush her out and move on