Let me clarify, It’s not that I have trouble showing emotion, or showing that I love them. But I feel I show it too much, like that I care about this person so much that I’m not even able to express how much to them. Like I feel like I can’t live without this person, like everything I do I need them in it, and I’m scared that I tell them these things so much that they lose meaning, and that when I say, “I’m so lucky to have you in my life” that I’m not actually getting through to them that I really am the luckiest guy on the planet, or how strongly I feel about them. So now I’m coming to the clearly most trustable source of advice, Reddit. So does anyone know of a way to portray these feelings better?
TL:DR, I’m stupid and don’t know if I’m actually expressing what I mean when I tell my partner how much they mean to me
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Could you get them a thoughtful
Card and gift which is something very special and unique to just them? Like a necklace or eternity ring or something you’ve made?
Youre so young all you need are your words to display affection, if youre older you could learn more about gift giving or acts of service and other love languages but you should stick with just expressing your love and maybe if you aren’t already getting detailed and personalizing why you love them