I’m not sure how I feel About this so here I am Posting to get some Opinions. We live out of state, two out of 3 of my bfs friends never really spent too much time to get to know me so when we travel
Back to his home town they are asking for alone time with him. Which is ordinarily fine, but I mean, I’m flying us there, and getting us rooms to only sit alone in the room while they go have their alone time.
They are a short flight or long road trip away from us, they could very well come visit here if they wanted to the way they visit other people and places but they use the time we travel there to ask for this alone time from him. They could come here and go with him to lunch or dinner. When we’re home we’re working; I’m running a business, yes we’re together but it’s not vacation fun time, I just don’t like being left out when we’re on our fun time.
How should I feel about this? I get this is a two sided coin, on one side I can shrug it off and find something to do on the other hand I could find it disrespectful of them to not consider that I’m on this trip too and they are being rude by asking that I just sit around alone in a hotel room. Mind you they are saying only for a couple hours but , when this man gets on the phone with them that alone is more than a couple hours. My guess is that it would be for the entire evening.
I’m from the same town too but my friends are scattered across the USA now for the most part so it’s not like I can fill up a social calendar.
This isn’t something my bf asked for from them, and he understands both sides of it, but he’s the kind of person that aims to please and doesn’t like to confront anyone or make his opinion strong, so pretty sure what’s going to end up happening is I’ll probably need to find something to do so he doesn’t have to say anything that contradicts what they want out of him.
I mean in the grand scheme of things it shouldn’t be a massive deal, but like common, none of my friends have been rude like that, if we travel to where they are they naturally assume my bf will be there… there’s no question on that
I get that Theres are stupid things to complain about. Most people in these rooms are complaining about cheating or abuse or addictions, too little attention from their partners ; too much attention and here I am complaining about this. Truth is we don’t have any major problems to complain about 😅😅😅