How did you pick the winner while talking to multiple people?

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1. When all others pale in comparison.

2. I’d probably choose the one I feel I have a more honest communication with, if of course through that communication I understand she’s serious about starting a relationship

   But this is very hard to happen so yeah, dunno

3. Keep doing all of them as long as you can. Eventually you’ll get caught and might or might not lose one or more of them. Eventually you start over.

4. Whichever one seems most promising, which is usually the first one you have a discussion about exclusivity with.

5. I only had this situation once, with my current gf. It was like, it was easiest just talking to her about everything, and she was making equal effort instead of just “woo me”. It did not feel like playing dating game, but we were actually developing relationship. I was talking to two other girls at the time, went on first date with each, and it was incredibly clear to me who I should focus on.

6. I just go with my gut. If I feel a real connection with someone, I tend to prioritize that conversation. And as for stopping conversations with the others, let’s just say I have a pretty good sense of when it’s time to politely bow out.