So I met this girl off tinder and basically she’s a sweet girl, but idk if I would have a relationship with her. I just got out of a relationship a month ago, and maybe I would date her, but I’m not going to date anyone is going out to frat parties, or just going out a lot in general and isn’t mature. My bar for relationship material is now much higher and I’m not going to force a relationship like I used to.
I waited until the 3rd date to kiss her and then once I did make a move, things ramped up quite a bit, and we basically dry humped each other, and we just had dry sex basically. Next date we’re going to a drive in and I kind of really want to have sex, but idk I care about people’s feelings too much lol and I don’t want her to get attached.
Also it’s kind of tacky to have sex at a drive in, but the windows are tinted and I’ve done it before lol.
The thing is I’m a passionate guy, and I don’t necessarily want her to think I want something more. Realistically I’m gonna see if she wants to have sex, if not then I’m happy to just make out and keep fooling around, but I guess I’ll feel things out a bit more.
I just missed intimacy and ever since my gf broke up with me, I really miss sex and just making out.
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up to you and her
All you really have to do is compare notes on expectations with her. A sort of “Hey, so do we think having some sex mostly for the fun of it is OK? Because that’s about where I’m at. I don’t feel up for a whole capital R Relationship, but you’re so sexy it would definitely fun to get it on with you- IF you feel about the same that is. What do you think?”