whys it so hard to find a gf?

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1. Do you have a clear idea of the type of woman you’d like to be with? Doing this will help you screen the type of woman you’ll allow into your life, and ensure you share common interests and are compatible when it comes to your values and morals.

   You’ve heard the phrase; ‘How can you love somebody else if you can’t love yourself.’ Working on yourself and finding self-love is an essential endeavour to partake in before searching for a partner. If you don’t have high self-esteem then this will cause you to cling to your partner and ruin the relationship

   Put yourself in the area where your ideal women would visit. This is about demographics and understanding where your ideal woman may hang out, ie; yoga class, gyms, libraries, music events.

2. Not gonna lie you were born in a shit time, the choices are pretty sucky these days.

   But letsberelaxed is right In that competition is stiff in any climate, I got a gf by making sure I ate well and trained hard so I always looks good enough to not scare women away.

   As I got older I put a lot more effort into talking and flirting etc but I also read a lot and put a tonne of work in.

   The friends I had back then who didn’t I’m prettysure are still lifelong single.

3. Same boat, fuck it 🤷‍♂️

4. The honest reason might be that you’re a 22 year old male.

   Realistically you will be attractive to

   18-21 year olds who will also go for much older.
   So it’s a small pool to draw from.