How do you know if your partner is checking out other women?

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1. Just worry if he isn’t looking at you.

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3. If his eyes linger too long on another woman to the point it doesn’t feel right and he does a little up and down over the woman with his eyes

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5. Does it matter? It used to make me so jealous and annoyed when I was younger. Now I’ve realised that we all look, to some extent. He’s with you for a reason. If he wants to look, don’t let it get you down or worry you. If he’s being obvious/creepy, have a quiet word when you get home.

   To answer the question though (sorry), he’ll probably go quiet for a little bit. Maybe check where you’re looking and, if he feels like you’re looking the other way/won’t notice, he’ll follow her with his eyes and swivel his head slowly so as not to draw attention (if he’s discreet).

6. Because I see him checking out other women.

   Looking is pretty innocuous. As long as he’s just looking, I don’t have a problem with it, and he consequently doesn’t feel the need to hide it from me.

7. I do not really care and tell him teasingly ” hey you remember to behave ok?”. We are together for 11 yrs tho, things are different when you are younger/just got together

8. I was talking with a lesbian colleague once and we were discussing how there’s a thin line between looking and leering, everybody looks which is natural but to linger toolong and it becomes a leer which makes women and men uncomfortable.

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