my friend said he is selfish. again and again indicating that he will ghost me if he will find another new friend. but he is the one who said earlier that he hates when people ghost him. he also said that i do more care of people who care of me.. but for people who don’t give a shit to me.. i let them go. but on another hand even when i care a lot about him.. he talks things like “i am selfish i might leave u when blah blah…”
so i want to ask what is his personality type? because i like him but he is overly rude most of the time with me for no reason. he also said he breaks stuff for no reason but later he plays victims when someone else ghosts him. what sort of behaviour is this? I am confused.
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Looks like NPD (Narcissistic personality disorder)..
Is this a friend or a crush?
Might have disorganised attachment style.
Suggestion – don’t invest much in them and expect that at some point they will ghost/leave you. Set up boundaries and don’t allow them to manipulate you (for example by guolt tripping you). Don’t sacrifice your needs to them.