me and my boyfriend have had sex 3 times now and the third time it wasn’t uncomfortable anymore and didn’t hurt anymore (it hurt the first two times cause he took my virginity with no lube or condom and we didn’t use lube or a condom the 2nd time, which if it concerns anyone we have communicated and agreed that we are going to use condoms now). he said he wanted to try more positions now because we only did missionary for my comfort since his face comforts me and made me feel better during the painful times.
what positions are the best for people that haven’t had sex a lot??
he said he wants me to ride him but i don’t think im ready for that which i communicated that to him and he said thats perfectly fine and that whenever i feel comfortable enough then we can try it (which im happy with). another position he wanted to possibly try was me laying down on my stomach and him fucking me from behind but i don’t know if i’ll be okay with it.
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The last you said, doggy, it is usually quite pleasant for women. It implies that he will do all the work. While with the former, cowgirl, the work will fall on you.
As a man, I don’t like cowgirl all that much and my wife loves doggy. We also love some variation of missionary (one or two of her legs over my shoulders).
hi, i lost my virginity a few days ago and honestly we went a little crazy and tried a lot of positions. personally, doggy felt the best for me, it was the least painful and most comfortable position. we did use lube, which i think made a bigger difference than we thought (we were both virgins) so i’d recommend looking into that! good luck!