I’ve posted in this subreddit before. I’m 21m in college. For a while, I thought I liked this 21f. We were getting so close, holding hands, and cuddling. Last week she told me she just wanted to be friends. She had been leading me on for a while. During that time, I was also getting to know her roommate. I had been getting closer with her roommate and hanging out a lot, especially last weekend. On Friday, she texted me and asked to come over to my dorm. She came over, and we talked and cuddled. We also kissed multiple times. She ended up staying the night and leaving around 6 in the morning.
TL;DR I got friendzoned by a girl I thought I liked. I started connecting with her roommate.
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Ha ha ha yes. Have a great next few weeks soldier š«” . Jokes aside, girls are weird and get jealous fast. It may not be that bad. But it also could be. Not only that, thatās her roommate. Her seeing u with another woman may bug her and make her try to get āu backā but with her roommate, may be bad for you. But Iām assuming worse for her roommate. But, I do have to say, even if first girl does get mad and tries to get you back, just know she just wants your attention. If she does truly get upset itās because youāve given it to someone else āso fastā. Her roommate may actually like you (itās too fast now Iām assuming). Sources: my first two years of college šš. Iām 24 now but at 20-22 shit was always on a fine line when it came to relationships . (Friendships.. romantic relationships,friend with benefits..etc)
Maybe they talked between themselves and realized that the first one doesn’t like you as much as the other one does? Who knows?