With school, work, family, and other obligations, the timing was just never right but now my hormones are seriously kicking in and I feel I am ready for my first time. What things should I be considering besides BC and STD protection?

3 comments

  1. Make sure you trust the person you do it with. It should be somebody who isn’t trying to pressure you into sex, and who youre certain would stop if you changed your mind and said “stop” at any point during. It should be somebody who checks in with you during sex a bit, takes their time with foreplay, and makes you feel generally comfortable and at ease

  2. I would like to give you good advice. You need to share more Information.

    Like do you have some one in mind?
    How far have you gone sex wise?
    Are you just looking to just to get off ?

    Thank you

  3. “First time” implies virgin? If that’s the case, have you thought about it? I don’t recommend overthinking it but make sure you have no regrets. Some people (like me) who just “do the deed” can sometimes wish they had waited for someone they have feeling for.

    You may decide there are other things to consider if you take things slowly with someone.

    Hope this helps.

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