I’ve been watching porn for a while now and my bf actually watches it with me now too!
We all have fantasies or ideas that porn fulfills, but I was wondering if anyone actually went through with actually doing whatever it is they see in porn? What was it and what was it like afterward? Were there any good or bad consequences from it (like regrets)?
I know porn addiction can be a real thing so no talking about that 😛
Thank you for sharing!
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That’s how I got into rope and then smut making. Best decision of my life and I took it very very slow. No regrets yet!
My ex and I used to watch porn and do whatever they were doing on the screen it was a lot of fun!
Done both. Re-enacted porn and also lived out non porn related fantasies. I know myself well enough to know which are healthy to act out and which are not.
Keeping in mind porn doesn’t show a lot of the prep that happens behind the scenes. For example there’s a lot of off screen prep for butt stuff. Though I do love homemade stuff as it’s often more realistic.
Be that as it may, yeah, I picked up a lot of kinks during lock down with an FWB. I didn’t think I’d enjoy eating ass (turns out I love the moans). I was unsure I’d like doing role reversal, turns out the gentle stuff was really fun.
I would say start with talking out the fantasies during sex. Talk about after you two cum to kind of get a sense during post nut clarity.
Yes, we have indulged in the fantasies we have found in porn. One of hers was she always wanted a guy to pick her up, wrap her feet behind her head and fuck.
I was strong enough and she was flexable enough….
We were both pretty shy with anything sex related, over the past 18 months we have opened up ALOT now we have some bdsm toys etc… There are some things im still not ready to open up about though :/
But we are now wanting to visit a sex convention together 🙂
Yep! Partner and I talk about fantasies when they come up and sometimes we try it and sometimes we don’t. We both know what the other isn’t into though so we pretty much always go for it. Got into Bad Dragons at her request recently, and we both love them now. Not something I would have ever thought of. We tried hot wax a bit back and neither of us really dug it and we talked out why. Communicate. Everyone says it, but it really is essential.
For years I fantasised about organising a girl, had never met before, to check-in to a hotel room, leave a key for me at reception, then wait blindfolded for me to come and use her in whatever way I pleased 😈
Eventually I managed to pull it off and I’ve done it with 8 different girls so far.
Reality can way surpass fantasy 😊
I’ve watched pegging and golden shower videos quite a bit and have done them. Would like to do wife share.
I listen to porn (yay for r/gonewildaudio) more than I watch it. When I first discovered the subreddit there was this audio I’d listen to almost every time I masturbated because it was just making me cum so easily and one of the things the actor was doing was calling the listener a good girl. I know it’s a pretty basic kink, but it just did something to me man. So I embraced it.
Sooo I start seeing this guy and early on in our dating when we’d just started having sex and exploring each other’s kinks and preferences, I told him that it would really turn me on if he called me a good girl. It was kind of a big thing for me to open up about it and he was happy that I felt comfortable enough with him to do so. He didn’t mention it again and I thought maybe he’d forgotten or maybe he wasn’t into it, but then one time we were texting about something innocent and I said I’d stop distracting him and let him get back to his work, he just responded with “good girl”. Hahaha holy fuck, I got fanny flutters from just seeing that message. 😂
Then when we met again and had sex, I was going down on him for a while when he suddenly gently grabbed my hair and pulled me off his cock. He made me look at him and then he called me a good girl so I could see him and hear him say it. Fuccccckkkkk. Honestly, it was 50% of hearing him say it and 50% of him caring about my pleasure and doing something that I asked him to do. It’s been months since then and even now he doesn’t call me a good girl every time when we have sex and it’s this magical reward that I have to work for and anticipate. He usually only does it if I’m being good at following his orders during sex or I’m being particularly enthusiastic or eager and really getting into it in the moment. It’s like he’s using it as a carrot on a stick to get me to go harder and faster and dirtier and I. Love. It.
Last year we were on a really cute date watching the Christmas lights in the city, I went to get us takeaway coffees and said how I think I remembered his favourite flavour and ordered it for him. He took the coffee, held my hand, leaned in and whispered “good girl” and squeezed my hand a bit harder as he did it, kissed me on the cheek and had this smug smile on his face. I ruined my pants right there and then, had to sit in my wet underwear for a 2 hour theatre play and all I could think about the whole evening after that was how badly I wanted him inside me.
So yeah he didn’t just take a small little thing that I discovered from porn but really ran with it and has turned it into this whole proper kink for me, not just some random words to repeat while he’s hammering me. 10/10 would use porn for inspiration again.
Yes I have tried public masturbation public sex and many others
Thanks to porn I know I am well into kinky stuff and like to be a caring Dom. I then practiced it with a FWB back then, I wish I did it earlier tbh.
The trick is to not consume the oversaturated commercial porn that is on the front pages, that thing is toxic for your brain.
Find a movie you both like and fuck along with it. Just copy whatever they are doing. Its like sing-along songs for grown ups