I am a 18 year old male and I lost my virginity a few days back. I’m a guy who’s avoided hookups for all parts of my life because I only wanted to have sex with someone I loved. I never had any sexual intimacy with my ex and after she dumped me. I stayed away from any relationship or hookups for 4 or 5 years straight. So to satisfy myself, I watched a lot of porn and masturbated a lot a lot. Now I’m with the love of my life and last time when we were having sex. I couldn’t get a full boner?
Me with a full boner, have a 7+ inch penis and with her it was barely around a 6 or 6.5 something without much hardness. I still have her “the best experience of a lifetime” and I went on for like 45 minutes until she asked me to stop. I never finished because I never felt “satisfied”. Watching soo much porn has given me a fake idea of how it feels and so even when I was having sex with her, I wasn’t that horny. Seems very very wierd. And I realised that while masterbating, i press my penis very hard to finish and when I didn’t feel it, I never finished too. And I kept going soft in between and I don’t even know why.
I’ve totally given up on porn and masturbating. Is there anything else I can do to get myself *normal*? Some tips to get my completely boner at will and also get horny at any moment I want to?
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Quit smoking, eat healthy, start exercising. Have a beetroot juice a couple of hours before sex, it helps with blood flow. And this might be something to consider too, are you sexually attracted to your partner? Which positions or what side acts (french kiss?, ass rub?) that can help you to climax? If you can afford it do a blood test to check your testosterone level too.
It’s ok to allow for some warm up time. Enjoy the moments. Take your time…..sex is like one of those artistic dishes at an expensive restaurant….or, it’s Taco Bell…..either way, it is what you make it.