For the last two weeks, I have been unable to satisfy my husband. TDLR; I had a procedure done and am not allowed to do anything penetrive for two more weeks.
I know it’s hard on him, and it is on me to. I feel like the spark to our relationship is fading, and I feel so useless because I can’t give him sex and he always tells me head is never enough to finish him off.
I’ve thought of mutual masturbation, but I’m incredibly shy and don’t know how I would handle that. I would want to but feel like it would be weird, like what am I supposed to do? I can’t see how anyone can focus on the task at hand when someone’s watching them.
Regardless I’d love any and all suggestions. Maybe some will help me get over my self-consciousness.
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You should hopefully understand that you are a partner and not a meat socket. He will be fine. There is no man in this world that will die if they don’t have sex for a month. If he were hurt and couldn’t have sex with you..you would and should be more concerned about his health and recovery. He should be doing the same for you. Also if he’s a man..he’s probably proficient at masturbating himself. He has had practice. He will be fine.