I (22M) found her (22F) in my university through a friend. We connected on day one. Same likes same playlist, same anime and a lot of similarities. We started talking on phone calls late at night till morning. She did mention her ex but they haven’t done it. I have had no proper relationship so wasn’t aware much and accepted that people do talk to their ex. She started staying with me late at night in my room. We would cuddle the whole night. I would sometimes kiss her here and there but we never had a proper one. This continued for a month with few hurdles and fights.
Then her ex came to our city and she went with him on day out’s and she admitted to me while we were cuddling that she went with him and did what we were doing without clothes but still didn’t do anything more than touching.
This made me feel like I am being cheated on even though we are not in a relationship nor she has ever expressed an interest in a relationship. Every time we had this conversation she would say she sees me as a friend and nothing more than that.
I have come to this SubReddit to get some serious help on how to move? And should I even continue cuddling as this is and will keep happening until either she or I stop it?
PS: I really like the girl and want a relationship but she doesn’t want and I respect that
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She told you. You’re nothing more than a friend to her. If you want a relationship, then you need to be looking elsewhere. Drop her and move on.
She finds him more attractive and you’re playing for second.
She’s your friend, impossible to take as cheating.
You only care about sex and not her as a human or a friend. That’s far from being fair for her not for you.
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You had a partner a few days ago.