Ive been in a relationship for over six months and I havent been able to make her orgasm. I think our relationship is going great otherwise, we are passionate and find each other attractive. We are often intimate with each other in other ways and love being close to each other.
However, after trying many things like fingers, oral, different positions, a vibrator, she hasnt even gotten close. We recently started using a clitoris stimulator during sex, which was the first thing to cause some sensation for her, but it still isnt enough to reach an orgasm. She has said that the stimulator has gotten her close to an orgasm during sex, but the closer she was getting to the climax, the more pain she felt in her clitoris which made her unable to orgasm properly.
The only experience she had with masturbation before this was humping a blanket, which she can use to get a less intense orgasm, different from the one she feels with the stimulator.
I really wish I knew what to do, does anyone else have a similar experience or some things we should try?
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She needs to go to a doctor if its always painful for her. Reaching orgasm should not be painful. Occasional pain might just be a bad day or a bad angle but if its happened every time with different methods, she should get checked out just to make sure theres no underlying issues x