I’ve never given head before. My boyfriend went down on me last night and I felt so shitty for not returning the favor. I’ve never had a guy do that to me and I don’t know if I’m supposed to return the favor or not. I asked him if he wanted anything in return and he told me, “That is for you to decide, so when you’re ready. All I want right now is to be with you.” He’s such a good guy and I’m so nervous that I will mess something up with my inability to return what he gave to me. I want to give him head and I want to make him feel good the same way he did for me, I just am nervous and don’t know what I’m doing. Do you have any tips on how to give someone head? I don’t wanna come off as this nervous girl who’s never done anything. He knows I like him and he knows I’ve never done anything and seems fine with it, still I’m having a hard time. Any advice?
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Start suckin and ask him what feels good and what doesn’t. No teeth.
Sex isn’t tit for tat so reciprocating isn’t always expected or necessary. Having said that, if you want to then all you can do it try!
Let him know you’re nervous and not done it before. There is no shame in that and any decent person will be understanding and accommodating.
Ask for feedback on what he likes and doesn’t like and seek validation while in the act for encouragement to continue
>I felt so shitty for not returning the favor.
First of all, stop calling it “returning a favor”. He went down on you because he likes it and because he hoped you’d enjoy it.
>Do you have any tips on how to give someone head?
Start by putting his dick in your mouth! You’ll figure everything else out along the way.
> I don’t wanna come off as this nervous girl who’s never done anything.
Why not? You *are* a nervous girl who’s never done anything. He is fine with that, you should be too.