My girlfriend is upset over it being Vince Neil’s birthday she hates him and Motley Crue with passion because he destroyed her favorite band. She’s also in love with the English band Hanoi Rocks she’s mad at Vince for destroying them for killing their drummer also other shit that went down with the band. Someone posted on her Instagram * if you can’t accept what happened to the Hanoi guys maybe you should find a new band * that’s so fucking mean from what she told me sounds like they been through some shit too at such a young age they started when they were like 16 or 17 when they started. She can’t accept it but she’s not moving on from them they’re her favorite band other than the Beatles. Teens on Instagram are so fucking mean and rude I don’t understand it especially to a band who wasn’t even popular here in the states. She said she wishes Vince hadn’t killed Razzle then Hanoi would be bigger than Crue if they were still performing here she hates Vince so much. How can I calm her down ? Anybody remember this band ?
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I think you eventually learn that you are not responsible for another persons mental state. Healthy people regulate their own emotions. It’s a skill functioning adults have.
Why do you want to calm her down? Is she asking you to calm her down? Is it because she is annoying you? Or do you think it is one of your duties as a boyfriend?