I’m a woman and I can’t figure out what the problem is. Anyone else? I was at a party yesterday and all girls were with their girl friends except by me, I was by myself. I tried to socialize, interact and dance with them but they seemed to ignore me. I could only talk to the guys. Then one of them had added me from a WhatsApp group chat the day before and we talked a little on the app. Then after that party (she was there) she blocked me or deleted my number. I greeted her at the party but she left so we didn’t talk in person. Why does that happen to me so often?
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Ok I don’t know the whole context but what I can say is making friends with women is definitely harder than making friends with men. No doubt about it. Idk what it is exactly, maybe we’re all just naturally programmed to see each other as competition or something but whatever it is, its there.
So I think it’s about how y’all started vibing with each other. Also it doesn’t help to seem desperate or putting in more efforts than the other person, that’s just not good for you trust me. Try and be nonchalant about it, don’t make it a big deal in your head that you’re tryna befriend someone. What that does is, it puts pressure on you and the other person can sense that and alot of times that doesn’t go very well