Hey guys, I need your help. I am texting with a nice and really interesting girl. I asked her to go out with me, and she said yes.
Now, I need your advice and help.
I was always upbeat and extroverted. I always had interesting topics that came naturaly to my mind. But last 2 years I am depressed and anxious.
I broke up 2 years ago, and had family tragedy.
Since then, I am became more introverted and sometimes even I see that my conversations became dull or depressed with people.
I really like this girl, and I would like to start with some fresh, interesting conversations and behaviour on this date. It doesnt help that my life was boring, so I do not have much to talk about what interesting happened to me in this 2 years.
I need tips and tricks for topics, interesting things that girls like in their late 20s on a date.
I know, be yourself, relax… but I am not old me, so I would like not to be “just myself”.
Thanks!
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Ask her about her – focus the conversations on her interests. And hopefully you’ll find common interests during that; and whilst she’s talking, you’ll have more time to think about what to bring up next, etc. – you will get ‘wins’ as you’ll be demonstrating interest in her + listening skills – good luck pal.