1 (25F) had my first orgasm when I was 21 by my first vibrator. I have NEVER came from a guy, ever.
But after getting my rose toy a year ago, it honestly doesn’t bother me that much now.
Ladies, IYKYK when it comes to the 🌹.
But I’m wondering if anyone else has found it hard to have an orgasm without the use of sex toys?
Even if I try to rub myself, it never is enough to get me off.
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I think it’s common and you should use toys when having sex. I wouldn’t worry too much!
Agreed, you can use toys when having sex đź‘Ť. Not all men can make a woman orgasm. And sometimes it takes time finding the spot, lol
It’s pretty common for women to never cum from strictly penetration. When I was with my ex we’d upgrade every sex session by involving a toy, we’d have casual sex for a while and then however many minutes in we’d bring in the palm sized vibrator, I’d be fucking her from the back while she lies face down ass arched up with the vibe buzzing on her clit, some of her most powerful orgasms during sex lol
I don’t know how cool people are with this idea but people swear “death grip” is a thing for guys. Maybe just not using the 300 volt monster for a little while might help lol. Probably not worth stressing over if it doesn’t work though.
If you need it you need it. You just might get a compatibility issue occasionally. Im a guy so obviously don’t understand the particulaf thrill but enjoy the rose.