Well I usually dont think too deeply, about what I say with close ones as I am more relaxed. I only think of it in surface level. But I always end up saying something that disappoints the other person. I accidently say something which would hurt them despite it not being my intention. I only understand it is wrong when the other person tells me their feelings etc (which would always be argumentive, which I can understand cause they are hurt, and expected me to be a better person than I was). I always feel like I should just shut up and speak less lol. The world around me would be much better.
how do you guys figure out what the other person wants to hear? or what would trigger them, especially when big stuff dont anger them but silly stuff does?
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