If “everything is in my head”, “its all about confidence” and “if you are confident ugliness doesnt matter”, then how is it that people ghost me on dating apps right after seeing a photo of myself?

3 comments

1. Aren’t your photos part of your profile before you match with someone?

2. If you’re using dating apps, your photos should be uploaded already for them to see if they want to match with you?

   Dating apps are very superficial, with women being inundated with options, I’m pretty sure some will only look at your first photo and if it doesn’t interest them, they’ll move on. You don’t have chance to show them your personality, or the type of person you are.

3. This is pretty much my complaint.

   I’m physically in shape but ugly, my friends are all “you just need to believe in yourself!” and “just be more confident!” and I struggle to get through to them that online dating consists of women looking at photos of me and going “Hell no!” My level of self belief is irrelevant.