I’m 19f and he’s 24m. We’ve been talking for a few days, and we both agreed we have clicked really well.
He’s really good looking and our conversations have just been getting to know one another.
But this last question he asked me really made me giggle and feel like he’s running his own dating show in his head .
He asked “tell me why I’m going to think your the best one out of them all”
I read it wrong the first time, then he said “your turn cutie” and I was like wtf he mean my turn LOL
Then I reread it. He basically wanted me to like “sell myself” to him I think? I literally sat there for a good minute not knowing what to say. I said something like “Idk there’s not much to me I think but I always try to be the best version of me so I can be the best I can to my SO”
Bc I literally hate talking abt myself in that way. Idk why but I just physically can’t do it.
It really made me feel like I’m competing for him LOL.
Not to sure how this will turn out but ig I’ll see tomorrow 😭
I will give it to him though- he was very straight up with his intentions of finding a gf. So he may also just be trying to find the right girl for him, which honestly good on him. More people should be like him, even though it may feel like the other person is in a dating show LOL.
1 comment
That is the premise of online dating. Most guys get almost zero interest and will have weeks where not a single woman swipes on them.
​
The few “really good looking” men on the other hand drown in right swipes (or likes depending on the app) and can act like him, if they please.
Competition is stiff for the best one (like du’h), so yeah …
​
​
So it’s up to you if you want to fight for him and if you decide to then best of luck! 🙂