Hey all! My gf has been struggling lately with achieving orgasm due to all the usual stress etc. and on top of that she has what we jokingly refer to as a teleporting clit. Whether it’s my hand or a vibrator, it seems like after a few minutes we can “lose track” of it and then we have to sort of find it again and start over. Even alone she told me the other day she tried for 2 hours with her vibrator before the batteries all died on her and she gave up. This has been leading to increasing sexual frustration on her part.
I’d love to help her by finding a vibe that helps with these problems. She really likes a lot of pressure/hard pushing and needs something that can apply pressure while also keeping that dang clit from running off on us. If it’s something I can use on her that’s a bonus, but at a minimum something she can use herself
Suggestions??
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In my head says motorbunny sibian pumping the clit pierce the hood all the above would be my way
Have you heard of the hitachi magic wand? It’s so powerful some women have to use a small towel between them and the toy just to soften the intensity. So it’ll definitely apply pressure.
And it’s head is about the size of a plum. So no matter where her clit is hiding, you’ll find it.
Make sure to get the kind that plugs into the wall. It’s stronger than the cordless version and there won’t be any battery issues.
Haha all the comments are suggesting heavy-duty power tools! I say do it the old fashioned way get your face and fingers down there. Spread the labia apart. Even if it’s smaller than usual, it will still be in the same spot! Look at a diagram. Familiarize yourself with all the parts. Try lots of things and check in with her constantly to make sure you’re on the right track.
The clitoris isn’t just that little pink button….it’s shaped like a wishbone….so you can stimulate it in many ways, down the sides, from inside, and don’t miss secondary erogenous zones….a combination will always work better than laser focused clit stimulation.
Throw up an “East coast” gang sign, then turn your finger tips downward and place then on the upper labia near the clit. Now with some gentle pressure, slightly spread your fingers and tug a little upwards towards her belly button….then lick in between your fingers. That will help bring the clitoris out from da hood….so gangsta.
You can use two hands to accomplish the same thing….but a free hand is better for those secondary spots.