I (18F) often lay my head in his lap when we watch movies, but lately when I do it, all I can’t think of is pulling out his penis and giving him a handjob. I don’t want to be weird and just pull it out without saying anything though

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  1. Are you two sexually active currently? Have you before done any of the things you’re thinking about (while not laying in the couch)?

  2. Rub his thighs and sort of indicate where you are going. If he turns away or appears uncomfortable, don’t take it personally. You can’t just grab it but nonverbally let him know that you are there. Use your judgement but some guys like being spontaneous.

  3. Tell him straight up sweetie I’m horny most guys would jump at the chance to take care of you if you told him that

  4. Be weird and pull out his penis and use it to check your tonsils.
    Guarantee he will be so blown away and excited about it all.

  5. I do this all the time w my bf, i feel it get hard when im laying on his lap and i jus take it out and put it in my mouth. Im sure he wont be mad.

  6. *^(Standard disclaimer that I’m not speaking for all men.)*

    You’re overthinking it, but that’s ok since this is new to you.

    Here’s the thing: everyone is weird, but not everyone is comfortable showing that they’re weird. The people who embrace what they like/love to do w/o caring what other people think are often the happiest from my experience.

    Stroke his penis through his pants and look up at him and see what his reaction is. If you get a smile, keep going. If you get any other reaction just be prepared to talk about it. That’s all. You got this!

  7. Um….when I was with my ex I would lay with my head in his lap during tv, and I would just fondle him. It didn’t usually go anywhere because usually we already had had sex. But I just loved touching him. Unless he doesn’t like it, there’s no reason you can’t play.

  8. Say something like “babe/honey, I’m horny. Want a handjob?” as you gently touch the bulge and stroke the bottom half of it (especially near the tip). Smile at him and look at his face when you ask this.

    If he says yes go with for it. If he says no then stop.

  9. My gf will often lay In my lap and start rubbing and kissing it through my pants. I find it so hot and by the time my dick does finally get out of the pants its so built up I just want to explode. So yeah try that lol. Also just pulling it out without saying anything is most likely going to be fine also. Tell him though. “Babe last time I was laying in your lap I wanted to whip it out stroke it soooo bad” and see what he says. Also explicitly ask: “when I feel horny I just want to start grabbing and rubbing you, would you like it if I did that?

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