So I hope it dosent sound too weird to ask, but Im not very exprienced.
What kind of rhythm / pace should I try to emulate?

Right now we both are pretty much inexprienced, and would love some ideas to maybe get a better grasp

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  1. It depends on your partner, you typically want to pay attention to their body language. Communication happens during sex even if there are no words being said. Listen to how your partner moans, or how your partner moves as you speed up or slow down. You’ll know when you have the right rhythm/pace when she indicates.

  2. What works best for a couple is for the couple to explore and decide

    Only general advice I think is to keep in mind that while guys have the tendency to increase rate to climax, girls generally need the movement to be stable. That’s very general tho, best thing is to communicate

  3. Offbeat quarter note triplets are the shit.

    Seriously though, find a rhythm you can keep going for a longer period of time. Frequently changing the rhythm your girl has *just* gotten used to is usually no bueno.

  4. Start nice and slow and let her let you know if she wants you to go faster. If this is a GF/consistent person for you, then relax and take your time, you’re going to have a lot of time to explore each other and have fun figuring things out together!

  6. Take your time. Don’t just put your dick in and immediately start trying to find a rhythm. Give yourselves both a second to just enjoy the feeling and then you can start slow. Remember that it’s perfectly ok to focus on your own pleasure (as long as you’re not hurting her), she’ll love hearing your moans and knowing that she’s giving you that pleasure. Tell her how good she feels “mmmh you feel so good”

    Confidence is sexy. If you want to change positions you can deadass just pull out and tell her “turn around” and start fucking her doggy. Most girls love feeling desired so if you tell her how you want her she’ll usually be happy to oblige.

    Keep it fun, she’ll cum a lot easier when she’s fully relaxed into it so there’s no point trying to make her cum straight away. Eventually you can start experimenting with rhythms and depths and see what gets the best reaction out of her. If you’re not sure ASK HER!! “Does it feel good?” “You want more?”

    Some girls really love it when you’re all the way inside her and you don’t even thrust, can be very intimate to do that.

    One last thing, since you’re both inexperienced there’s a high chance that neither of end up cumming and that’s totally fine. Focus on the journey not the destination

    Have fun 👍

  7. It’s completely up to you and what the mood calls for.
    If you’re struggling keeping a rhythm, put on a song and move to the beat of the song. Pick songs that have the tempo you want to hit, lots of playlists on YouTube and Spotify

  8. This will depend on who you are and who you are having sex with. Do what feels best for the both of you.

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