Why would you give head if your partner doesn’t reciprocate?

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1. Because i like giving it to my partner, to see him enjoy it, but also because i love sucking his dick and taste him

2. Because I like giving it, don’t really care about receiving it as it doesn’t do anything for me

3. I like giving it a lot more than receiving it ngl

4. Because I don’t like oral sex and my partner does.

5. Because it’s not about “counting points” or saying to yourself “I did this so you should do that”. Each relationship is individual, but I’m not going to withhold something because he doesn’t do this other thing? I think that’s so unhealthy.

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7. I love it. But I won’t lie and say that I don’t care if he doesn’t. I need someone who will eat me good and I can suck him off.

8. Ima. Dude but I don’t care for head and love to give it

9. Because I like giving head. It’s not some transactional “I did you, now you do me” kind of thing in my sex life. I like giving, and I like receiving, but I don’t keep some kind of running tally of reciprocity.

10. Because I don’t like receiving it.

11. Because I don’t view sex as a transactional spreadsheet where every sexual act we do has to be tallied and exchanged like that, so deciding whether I want to do so is about whether we both want to experience a specific act at the time rather than a tit-for-tat exchange of acts.

12. ….I’d do it even if he didn’t reciprocate because i absolutely love sucking his cock.

13. Yes I like giving and absolutely HATE receiving oral. Besides our sexual relationship isn’t transactional and keeping score

14. No, I wouldn’t. I don’t really enjoy giving head unless I’m being stimulated myself but I can stimulate myself just fine without giving head.

15. Cause he pays for everything and puts gas in my car and pays my bills

    Edit: i also dont like it being done to me lmao

16. Because my partner enjoys it and maybe they give me something else that only they can do etc something that’s for me where they are taking care of my needs, whether it be with a toy etc it’s all love and attention

17. I (F) don’t enjoy the feeling of receiving oral. I think it’s disgusting and makes me feel dirty and uncomfortable. But on occasion I’ll do it for my partner because he enjoys it, and I like being able to do something non penatrative he enjoys.

18. The patriarchy. I say this in all seriousness.

19. Absolutely not

20. Sex isn’t transactional and I’m a giver. Plus, if his face is all the way down there, I can’t look him in the eyes or kiss him. He’s so mind blowing with all his other parts, it doesn’t even occur to me to consider oral.

    Not that we’ve never done ir, but kind of like a pre-game warm up when I’m already hot, so it almost seems like a step back? Nah babe, come up where I can see you and let’s move to more important matters.

21. I actually do. I don’t like receiving, I’m ticklish so it ruins the mood

22. Its not a competition.

23. Because I love going down on her and I don’t need reciprocity to be fulfilled sexually.

24. Idk care if the number of times each does it is equal, but I’m giving to get. You won’t go down, then neither do I.

25. Because I don’t like really getting it